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About congested prostate or blue balls - vasocongestion

By the condition blue balls, the channals (vas deferens) from the testicles that to the prostate are clogged  some place in the path so that the secretions and cells from the testicles is hindered.

Tubular structures inside the prostate may also be clogged. In these structures the secretion from the testicles and prostate secretions are blended and sent backwards to the seminal vescicles for storing or the semen from the seminal vescicles are sent back through the prostate and into the urethra during ejaculation.

The clogging of the tubular structures make secretions from the testicles and the prostate accumulate in the tubes, the testicles and the prostate. This accumulation will make the tetsticles, the prostate and the tubes swollen.

There are also cramps in the veins that drain the prostate area so that the area gets filled with blood. Also lymph will gather in the area. The accumulation of lymph and blood makes the tissue swallen and this swelling is the immediate cause of the glogging of the ducts.

the condition usually goes away by itself after some time, typically after an hour.

The symptioms are swollen tedticles, tender testicles, cramps in te prostate region and aching prostate region. Blue color in the scrotum is not any symptom, in spite of the name for the condition. Also general swelling of the prostate area may be seen.

The cause of blue balls or congested prostate

The cause of the condition is often a prolonged sexual arousal with engorged or erect penis and engorged perineal region without orgasm and ejculation. It is often seen in teenage boys that for some reason do not have the opportunity to get an orgasm and ejacualtion in several days.

During erection the parasympathetic nerve system sends impulses to the penis and groin area. These impulses cause releae of nitrogen oxide in the area. Nitrogen oxide stimulates the outlets of blood vessels and other channels to constrict so that blood and fluid can fill up and the penis and genital area get engorged or get erect.

If the engorged state remains for several hours, or  occur frequently for several days without relief, the constrictions can remain, there will be a prolonged accumulation of blood and lymph in the area, the channels will get compressed at places and thereby closed and fluid will fill up in the channels.

This possibly occurs because the dimmished blood flow makes the blood in the area depleted of oxygen and this depletion make the vessels cramp. Perhaps also the fluid gets chemically altered or more concentrated so that it flows less easily too.

A more seldome cause of congested prostate is infection in the genital area or other inflammatory states that make lymph nodes in the area swell and close the channels. Blue balls may therefore somtimes be a symptom of sexually transmitted infections.

To some extend blue balls seem to be a cultural phenomenon. In cultures where boys and men are not allowed to masturbate, do not often m,asturbate because it is concidered sinful or are hindered from masturbating in long periods, the condition seems to be more frequent than in cultures where boys are allowed to masturbate freely or where men do not pose any restriction upon themselves of the kind.

In institutions where boys and men are gathered without any privacy like the military or boarding schools or in camps of various kind like boyscout camps or sports camps, the condition seems to create problems fairly often.

Prevention and treatment of congested prostate

Clogged vas deference or prostate can be prevented by having regular orgasms. If a man or boy do not engage in sex with another person regularly, regular masturbation will prevent the problem.

If one engage in sexual activities that cause erection and engorgement for several hours, one can prevent blue balls by massaging of the perineal region, the region between the legs, the testicles and the penis. This can be done by hands or by using a vibrator.

Getting stimulated som much that an orgasm and ejaculation occur, for example by masturbation, will usually cure the condition. The force of the ejaculatory movements will push the fluid out. The sympathetic nerve system will also then be set back to the resting condition so that the cramps stop. Just laying down and relax can aslo be useful.

Sometimes it is impossible to get an erect penis go down again even after several hours. This is a condition called priapism where the blood vessels are clogged by permanent cramps or other causes. This is another condition that however may occur together with congested prostate. Priapism must be treated as an emergency situation, often by emptying the penis for blood by surgical techiques.

Masturbation Tips for Men to Achieve the Maximal Amount of Pleasure

Before you begin to masturbate, you should find a fine good place to lay, for example in your bedroom. The room must be pleasantly warm and you need some pillows that you can place under your neck, behind your upper body, or use to place your legs in positions so that you can reach any body zone with your fingers.

To get the most pleasure from your masturbation and to let the good time last the longest time possible, you must begin by relaxing and stimulate yourself in a gentle manner at the beginning.

Erotic oils can be applied during masturbation to enhance the experience you get from masturbating yourself, or from your partner masturbating you.

You can begin by caressing and stimulating other body parts than the penis. This will bulid up a sexual ecstacy from several angles with rich bodily and mental feelings.

Play with your breast nipples between your fingers. Use your whole hands to caress and warm up the areas around your nipples. You will find that your nipples get hard and erect, just like your penis, and you can even masturbate your nipples in a manner that resamble the way that you masturbate your penis.

Then you can concentrate upon your tommy region, especially your navel and the area between your navel and your penis. Put a finger into your navel, and stimulate your navel inside by rotating movements at the bottom and around the inner walls of your navel. Try to be entirely relaxed when you do this. Use different degrees of pressure towards the bottom of your navel. You will find that this stimulation gives you funny sexual feelings in your navel area, and these feelings radiate down towards your penis and all the way to your penis tip.

You can now proceed by massaging the middle of your tummy from your navel down to your genital region by your finger tips and massage the bladder area. By pressing down at your bladder area, the pressure will proceed into a lot of inner sensual zones, for example your prostate gland, giving a lot of fine-tuned sexual sensations.

Also caress, warm up and massage your groin area and your tights downwards from your buttcocks and your groin area. Begin with the inner sides of your tights and proceed with the outer and back sides.

By now your stimulation of other body areas have made you distinctly aroused, and you feel a hard urge for playing with your genital organs. Now you should proceed by playing with your scrotal sack and your penis. At this point you can apply some drops of erection oil to your penis head or some other types of massage oil to your genital region to enhance your experience.

Hold your testicles between the thumb and the other fingers. Use one hand on each testicle.  Warm up, caress and massage the testicles for with rotating movements. This brings blood to the area and enhances the arrosal.